Difficult Situations

I feel I am not really good emotionally and expressively when it comes to deal certain problems specially if they are between friends and they concern emotional yet ethical issues. I have (perhaps most of the time) given priority to ethics over the feelings, emotions, even friends. But yes I hate to be caught up as a sandwich. Often I will try to convey my view point indirectly and rarely, direct, in polite ways. But yes it is exasperating.